Why do ladies get heartbroken?
Today we hear stories of ladies being dumped, maltreated and heartbroken. As a result of these experiences, some ladies have become cold to men on the outside world and others have nurtured their minds into being unsecured.
But have these ladies paused for a while to find out why they actually experience heartbreaks?
Heartbreaks occur when a lady chooses to ignore the signs.
A lady gets into a relationship, it goes well for a while and after some time, it starts getting sour. (Don’t get me wrong. Yeah! Every relationship would experience ups and downs. But trust me, two people who truly love each other and want to be together would surely fight whatever stands in their way.)
But today, ladies see the handwriting clearly written on the wall and decide to ignore it.
It all starts when a lady is head over hills in love with her partner who has probably lost interest in her or cheating on her. She becomes vulnerable, she’s so in love that she stays even when she knows it’s time to walk away, she stays even when she knows he is not the one for her, she fights for the relationship alone, she takes trash she would not take on a normal basis, her energy is basically drained but she keeps on enduring and hoping things would get better in her relationship.
When things eventually get worse, she walks away disappointed and heartbroken.
1) Ladies need to know when it’s time to call it a quit.
2) Ladies need to overcome the fear of walking away.
3) Ladies need to understand the concept of self esteem and self worth.
These 3 points would be considered topics for another day